So I recently returned from celebrating the big 3-0 in Belize. I decided that if I haven't been spending my hard-earned money on a wedding or honeymoon or children, I should spend it on myself. Thankfully I have 2 good friends who totally agree. So we treated ourselves to 8 days in paradise, also known as Ambergris Caye, Belize.
We survived a hurricane (ok, tropical storm, but who's counting??) which left us stranded...at a Radisson...with a bar, a Mexican buffet, and the US getting defeated in the World Cup.
We ate delicious food at all times and sailed away to other tropical islands, stopping only to swim with the colorful fish.
We soaked up some local culture and enjoyed wandering the streets of San Pedro.
We zip-lined through the jungle like Jane to Tarzan (except Tarzan was a tiny 17-year-old Belizian named Oscar who was clipping me into a harness) and explored caves and crystal waters in inner tubes.
We went to bed whenever we felt like it and woke up early because hey, we're 30, and we have nothing to prove.
We conquered a 2-hour yoga class and later smoked Cuban cigars, because on vacation there are no conflicts of interest.
We zipped around Belize in airplanes the size of my car with no worries.
We hired a private guide to take us into the jungle cause that's how we roll...we're not sharing our Ford Windstar with other tourists.
We lounged by the pool while the pool boy delivered our frozen mojitos (a treat that rivals Rumba's mojitos, which is saying a lot).
We justified our ridiculous extravagance by insisting on the importance of supporting the local economy.
I reflected on the family and friends who have gotten me this far, and the unfathomable blessings I have received in my 30 years on earth.
And I was reminded that even though life at 30 looks nothing like what I expected or planned on, I've had a heckuva lot of good times and experiences and opportunities, and become a person I never dreamed I could be. And that's not a bad way to start a new decade.